Many bachelor girls are very anxious about problem of making acquaintances and search of the significant other. This subject is very pressing for them. Women often wonder: “What was it? He came, got acquainted, impressed me, attracted interest, took my phone number, promised to call, and disappeared! Maybe it’s my fault. Maybe it’s me who alienates men by wrong behavior.”

Of course, men are very unpredictable creatures and they make a lot of various mistakes, too, when they try to make acquaintances. That’s why very often it is their fault: men make acquaintances for very strange purposes and are not going to go out on dates with us after making the acquaintance. Several motives for making acquaintances.

Usual attraction. We all know the men’s nature: if they see an attractive blonde passing by, they immediately want to make the acquaintance of her. But, believe it or not, their emotions settle down in a while and they forget about you.

Boredom. Men often have free time when they have nothing to do (lunch break, time till the beginning of a lecture, end of a working day). It can be couple of hours, when their girlfriends or wives are busy and are not able to pay attention to them.

A man is seeking for an “alternate aerodrome”. Here is another variant: he has a permanent girlfriend, with whom he lives or meets, but currently they have a small relationship crisis or misunderstanding. He is no longer satisfied with this girlfriend and tries to find another one on the chance if his previous relationship came to a dead-lock. And, again, “if” is the key word. Sometime it happens that a man tries to find another girlfriend on the chance of departure (of his wife or girlfriend) in the nearest future.

Self-conceit . It’s vital for men to pamper their self-conceit sometimes and be proud of themselves. It sounds like “Look at me, I am so charming, attractive and sociable that any pretty girl is ready to make the acquaintance of me and give me her phone number.” Men as if test their ability of making successful acquaintances. They are very glad, when they succeed in making acquaintances, and they want to share this knowledge with everyone around. Man’s credo significantly rises in the eyes of his male friends. That is why men always talk about women in companies. Such stories about meeting a sexy green-eyed blonde always cause delight and approval.

That's the mess we are in, my dear women! And you should also take into account force-majeure circumstances: a man could fall ill, travel on business, have quite compressed timetable, pass exams or simply lose your phone number. So, here is the conclusion:

Do not blame yourselves in each unsuccessful acquaintance. Just look around and you will see that there are a lot of other opportunities and chances to settle your private life.

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