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He courted you; you had a couple of dates. He is not your hero, but this young man doesn’t want to believe in it. How to break up with him and not to offend him at the same time? Surely you have a friend who is dreaming about meeting a nice guy and building strong relationship with him. If you got tired of her constant complaints about loneliness, introduce her to your admirer. It often happens that guys, who couldn’t win your love, start courting your friend. Their reasons are simple: if you are friends, then you are similar in many ways. As a result, a guy hopes to find some qualities in your friend, which he appreciates in you. Firstly all three of you will communicate together, because they won’t feel shy before each other in your presence. The main thing here is that there is a possibility that you could miss a cool guy after these dates. You shouldn’t be jealous and try to make him come back when you find out that they have serious relationship. You should consider everything from the very first minute and be ready to go through thick and thin with your good intentions. Remember, that we start appreciating something only when we lose it.
Speak to him!
Speak to him sincerely. Don’t lay stress on his shortcomings. At the same time do not try to convince a guy that he is the best in the world, because a reasonable question will arise: if he was such a wonderful guy, why would you break up with him? Explain him that you are not ready for serious relationship yet. What if he met a girl someday but couldn’t build relationship with her because he was bounded with obligation towards you? Unfortunately, there are some people who don’t give in even in the face of rigorous arguments. Men of such type may take such explanations for another proof of your secret love towards him. In this case accusations of coquetry and insincerity are a usual practice. In order to avoid reproaches and annoying calls try to distance yourself from this guy.
Become a friend of his!
Become a friend of his, but do it slowly. Don’t say banalities like “let’s just be friends”. Remember: have you ever made an agreement with your friends before becoming friends with them? Here is the same situation. And it is very easy. Now you should offer your own places instead of places, offered by him; invite him at big parties; go and meet your friends to make him understand: you don’t need romanticism, but you do need his company. The main thing here is that everything abovementioned should be true for you. He is a nice guy, and even if you don’t want to kiss him, it doesn’t mean you don’t want to chatter and enjoy yourself next to him! Then you should just explain him that such kind of friendship can be simply spoiled with all the attributes of a love affair: jealousy, complaints about lack of attention, and break-up in the end. Having started perceiving you as a friend, he may like it. And then you should be ready for penetrating into details of his another great romance and hearing breathtaking stories from lives of his friends. He may stop perceiving you as a woman at some point, and you will hardly like it.
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