Each woman, who hasn’t managed to regulate her private life till 25 years old, wonders: “Does the man of my dream exist?” While growing older, your system of values and views change. Your opinion about men changes, too. It becomes more intelligent, you become more fastidious, and not every man can correspond to the standard you set. Or is it possible that there is no man of your dream at all? Let’s see.

What to begin with? Maybe it would be better to start from the end and go to the beginning? Loneliness and void, irrelevance, depression, disappointment, malice – women, who haven’t managed to regulate their private life, feel all these emotions. It is also necessary to add envy here. Yes, women feel envy when they see happy couples or a caring father holding his child. This envy eats you up from within, and, unfortunately, you can’t do anything with it. Different thoughts come to our mind. You think: “Haven’t I deserved a bit of female happiness? Haven’t I deserved a bit of male kindness and care? What is wrong with me? Why friends of mine, former classmates, fellow students, not really pretty ones and the ones far from being smart, why, oh, why do they enjoy love of men? And I am beautiful, slim, and clever, I have two jobs, I dream about having children, and I can’t meet and hold a man!” And such woman, having patience and colossal willpower, tries to perfect herself again and again, with more and more zeal, in order to be liked by the one who would stay with her forever. Exhausting diets, gyms, beauty salons – and all this is to be always ready to meet him. Some people would say: “A woman must look after herself.” But why must she? Is she obliged to someone? When a woman loves and feels she is being loved, she only tries to accentuate her individuality. A face of a happy woman is always young and beautiful! Slenderness? Oh, yes, it is necessary to be slim, and not for corresponding to the “patterns”, but for being healthy. You don’t have to be genius to understand that you need health for a long and happy life, so you need to eat healthy food. And in order to prepare this healthy food, a woman must feel happiness and love. Then she will create real masterpieces in her kitchen and won’t eat ice-cream to fight stress and depression.

There are many women and everyone has her own ideal. But are there any common features, which are combined in this “perfect man”? Just imagine: all women depicture one and the same image: man of average height, athletic, broad-shouldered, strong, kind, clever, charming, caring, sexy, without pernicious habits, and with a sense of humor. He must be skillful and hard-working, must know how to earn money and must not be greedy. And what do men want? An alien? Not at all! The main quality, which any man would be pleased to see in woman, is faith in herself. It is very good if a woman has faith in herself, and, first and foremost, likes herself. Sometimes we misinterpret the expression “likes herself”. To like yourself doesn’t mean visiting expensive beauty salons and boutiques, making new manicure every day, visiting solariums and night club parties. We’ve stopped believing in ourselves, in our exclusiveness and irresistibility, and female attractiveness. We are ashamed of our plumpness because we think men like only slim women; we dye our hair in blonde color, because we think men like blondes. Is it true in reality? Of course, not. Open any magazine or an internet page and you can read there that male requirements for women are absolutely normal, and any of you could match them. But what’s wrong then? And again, you should blame the “patterns” imposed on everyone by advertisement and television. Men have complexes about their appearance as well as we do, sometimes even more than women have. If a woman has an ordinary appearance, she has more chances to meet a man that a pretty girl has. Fear, yes, fear makes men do such choice.

What should you do? First of all, learn to like yourself. It's a funny thing, but it is true. We want to be loved, understood, respected, but do we like ourselves? Do we understand ourselves? Every second woman smokes, thereby, killing herself. I won’t paraphrase widely known notions about influence of smoking on a female organism (smoky smell, yellow teeth, dry mouth in the morning, short breath, permanent tiredness – these are the symptoms we can notice). Obesity is a disease of our age. We stopped listening to ourselves and our organisms. It is not unusual in eating healthy food. And what is a healthy food? It is when your organism receives all necessary vitamins and minerals. And since there are a lot of vitamins and minerals in vegetables and fruits, we should form our diet accordingly. Water is the most important substance for our organism, and we often forget about it. Beauty and youth of a young woman directly depends on the amount of water she drinks per day. How many times have you scolded, reproached and upbraided yourself? How is it possible to love a woman who hates herself, who neglects herself? Would you like such man? I don’t think so! I am sure you would like to see a healthy man full of life and enthusiasm next to you! Your man should be self-reliant and should have a high opinion of himself. Am I wrong?

Secondly, you should decide what kind of man you would like to see next to you. Describe an image of this man and imagine his merits and demerits, likings and even a career. It is a good idea to imagine even the smallest details (dear women – dream a little!).

And now look in the mirror and appreciate yourself from outside. Imagine that “man of your dream” is standing next to you. Have you done it? Do you feel comfortable? Does he deserve you? Do you deserve him? If you appraised the situation adequately, you would understand what to fix and improve. And now get to work! And let each of you be extremely successful!


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