What man women would never leave for other one?
Thinking about getting married we consider whether this man has the true men’s virtues that are so important for any woman and essential for married life.
There are four of them.
He is very reliable. Reliability is the main of men’s virtues. Sometimes we get upset over small things and hesitate to face minor obstacles. Husband secures the balance in your family. He smoothes out fluctuations in your mood and emotional outbursts, does not allow you to make drama out of a nonsense and puts your thoughts back on track: : "This is no big deal however yo should be more careful next time" or "I know you can do it!" Reliable man is always there for you when you need him. And even if you are at odds he despised the resentment comes to your aid. Do you remember problem- solving Rhett Butler from "Gone with the Wind?" he is a perfect example of extremely reliable man! Even when his beloved Scarlett once again married another man he continued to help her.
What are the ways to recognize a reliable man?He doesn’t make you to choose all the time, he just take initiative in his hands from the start and choose the restaurants or cafés you are going to visit or movies you are going to see. Going on a business trip he always let you know in advance. If you ask him to do something for you he answers “yes” and deliver or “no” in case he can’t do it and he never rebukes you for asking but rather explains you the reasons in a nice and polite way.
He is not afraid of taking responsibility and honor means something to him. Honor as a virtue might sound an old school but it still works. They say that love inspires for good deeds. It is true to some extend, a husband takes care of his wife because he loves her. However, does it happen often when he loves his in-laws as much? Hardly so. He doesn’t have to take care of them unless he does it for you, because he loves you. Men with no sense of honor and responsibility will never agree to take care of his sick mother-in-law by inviting her to move in or buy groceries for his old father-in-law and if he stops loving you and files for divorce he will not provide you any help or support anymore. Why should he do it if he doesn’t love you anymore?
How to find out? Try to find out if there is a relative, old teacher, neighbor or classmate he is still taking care of despite the fact that they take it for granted.
He is a generous man. A generous man protects all weak and defenseless. Sometimes he can conflict with superiors in rank or social status or equal to him since he wants to prove him strong and capable of getting into a better position in life and career. However he will not take advantage of less capable or weaker people.
How to recognize a generous man? Recently I’ve been to a fancy coffee shop in the city and saw a guy walking in with an old lady. He accompanied her to the display and offered her to choose a cake. She couldn’t choose a cake and he offered her to buy a piece of each cake available. He made her comfortable at the table by the window and left for a training class in the nearest gym. When he was leaving he told this woman not worry too much if she wouldn’t be able to finish the cakes as he would eat them after he is back from the gym. You should see the expression on every woman’s face in that coffee shop; they would follow him to the ends of world. A generous and giving man will never kick your dog if he is cross with you or slap a child who is crying like hell because the DVD player is off.
He is bold. Man is primarily a hunter and guardian and then an accountant, doctor, journalist or manager. If he does not have the instinct to protect the family he will always try to make you settle the problems and resolve issues: "why don’t you go there and ask" - and later blame you for not doing it right if he is not happy with outcome.
How to recognize a bold man? He is the first to enter the dark lobby or elevator in your building or any other dark and unfamiliar places. If he hears a strange sound in the hall way outside of your apartment he will be first top check it regardless your assurance that it is just a neighbor’s cat. He never picks up a fight unless he has to protect you from strangers in the dark street looking for trouble.
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