What to begin with on a dating site

Photos shouldn’t be captured by a mobile phone or other device with poor camera, but by a good camera. The ideal pictures would be the ones made in photo studio by a professional photographer.

Don’t make photos against the background of expensive foreign-made cars (of course, not yours) and in big companies (I am the second one in the third row). You should make perfect photos where you look remarkably well, and your appearance is excellent (you even can use Photoshop to fix some small defects, but don’t be too enthusiastic).

It would be nice if you had intelligent and meaningful look on the photo. If you made a photo after a party, when had a bottle of beer in your hand and a cigarette in your mouth, it would put most women off a desire to make the acquaintance of you.

It would be nice to show on a photo how fascinatingly you spend your free time: now you play bowling, now you are in a stylish night club, now you are playing chess, now you are standing next to the rock star, now you dive to the bottom of sea. Something like that.

You should have several photos. There is also another important moment: you should carefully select the main photo and to take into account the look of its preview. A woman sees the main photo, and if this photo is spectacular, she will definitely look through all of your photos.

How to fill in a form

Good education, intellect, some humor and creative ideas are absolutely necessary for this task. You can fill in a form to your taste and it is useless to use any common templates, because everything will eventually come to light during your further communication.

What kind of women is it easier to get acquainted with?

There is a number of views and likes below each avatar. Spicy women from top have a lot of views, friends, etc. This means only one thing: they do pickup, too, and they have created a profile according to my advices, given at the beginning of this article. There is no doubt that every fifth guy has already written her a message, and, most probably, your letter would be lost among thousands of other letters.

However, if you open 30th search page, you will find less interesting and beautiful women, who receive less letters from guys and have less experience in internet acquaintance. Use this factor. There is another trick: there are a lot of nice women in regional towns and cities, and there women are not as boring as metropolitan women are. It is also very important to examine photos very carefully. Sometimes your intuition can tell you, that this woman uploaded somebody else’s photo and she looks different in reality. In this case it would be better to pass by.

Internet acquaintance shoals

It happens quite often that in reality a woman looks slightly different from her internet image. :)

These advices should help you during online dating:

1) If a woman has only one photo in her profile, and you can see only her face on this photo, you should ask her to show you full-length photos (don’t go too far, because it won’t be clever to ask to show you her photos in bikini in the first message). It well may be that she is too plump for your delicate taste

2) If a woman has only professional photos in her profile, you can ask her to show you other simple photos from real life. You can count only on your luck: I personally do not communicate with women, who have only professional photos in their profiles. The reason is simple: women with perfect profiles have very high demands, and they immediately tell pickupers to get off

3) It would be better to communicate with her over the phone or Skype to complement you impression.

4) If a completely another woman came on the meeting, it would be better to say goodbye to her at once. You can politely say that you had urgent business. If she lied to you once she will do it again.

What to write. How begin an acquaintance.

Most importantly, do not write banalities to a woman, namely:

1) “Hi, I want to make the acquaintance of you!” and other commonplace offers.
2) “Hi, how are you?”
3) “Hi, you are so beautiful!”
4) Don’t try to invite her anywhere in your first message.
5) Don’t ask her to give you her mobile phone number in your first message.

Don’t write her so banal things not least because almost 99% male population does these mistakes. Of course, all these words are banal and hackneyed. You can write anything but not the above mentioned.

Here some ideas for the first phrase on the dating site:

1) Provocation. Use any provocative comment which can attract her attention and which will make her to argue with you. It is very important not to offend a woman, that’s why a humorous comment would be perfect.

2) Compliment. A compliment shouldn’t be about her beauty or attractiveness, but about something she was thinking about or tried to achieve. Look closely: she can dress tastefully, have nice profile or perfect make-up.

3) Humor. Any appropriate joke is usually welcomed by women with sense of humor, but you shouldn’t go too far, because it can alienate women with bad sense of humor or women, who take acquaintances too seriously.

How to make women send you messages by themselves on dating site

It is very simple. You should upload a nice photo album and create an interesting profile with a provocation, which urges women to pass their opinion. It is desirable that this opinion applies to dating, flirtation and meaningful relationship. It is necessary for giving women a handle for answering you and starting communication.

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