It is known that some women need just to snap their fingers to win the heart of men. Unfortunately (and maybe fortunately), male part of humanity would hardly master such seduction technique. I will help you, my dear friends, and explain several moments, which are very important for women. By the way, you do not pay enough attention to these important moments.

Who are you? What do you see, when you open a dating page in some magazine or at the website? “I would like to find a clever, beautiful and interesting girl; she should be housewifely and born a lot of children for me…”, bla-bla-bla and so on. It is really awful, because we all want many things, but we don’t think about our own qualities. Your first step should be self-definition and improvement of your own shortcomings. Women look for men, who can support them and their children, protect and care about them; so, you must show a woman that you are the one she has been looking for. Make a list of your advantages and disadvantages, what you’ve achieved and what you haven’t done yet; find out what stopped you and remove all hindrances from your way. You may even get a notepad, and if you can’t handle it, ask a good friend of yours, who knows you well, to help you. What if your results were like that: “I’m lazy and have no taste, but I want to find a stylish girl with two higher degrees…” What can I say? We all know that it is never too late to learn, and women like clever guys with an elocutionary gift. You don’t need to become perfect, because it would be just a mask and there are no perfect people in reality. Most importantly, don’t lose yourself, or you will turn into a “robot”. Get rid of such inadmissible qualities as laziness, cowardice, lack of ethics, lack of self-confidence, and cultivate another qualities: politeness, bravery, aesthetic sensibility, moral sense, and, of course, develop your intellectual abilities. It is really very simple to start a conversation with a pretty girl and invite her somewhere; you just need to be more self-confident. Don’t be afraid of a negative answer, don’t intrude, be polite, restrained and gentle.

First impression will form an important part of her complete impression about you, and it will be harder to make amends for mistakes, which you made during your first date, in the future. Let’s consider all you need to foresee one after another in order not to get confused:

1. Clothes. If you want to eclipse everyone, you shouldn’t dress yourself as a parrot, but at the same time you shouldn’t look like a businessman in an expensive tie or a bow tie. Choose a standard style: clean shirt and trousers or jeans. By the way, women pay a lot of attention to your shoes and collar! Women are very neat, so they pay attention to every single small thing.

2. Money. You should visit a place, where you are going to invite a girl, at least several times in advance. You should be familiar with prices, menu (if it is a café or a restaurant), area (you should know other places, which are situated nearby, where you would go in case a girl didn’t like the one chosen by you). You should have a considerable sum of money in your wallet, you know, just in case. :)

3. Respect and polite manners. It is enough to know simple rules of decorum: lady goes first; you should move up a chair for her; you should make an order for yourself first, and only then offer a lady to do it; you should speak with taxi drivers, waiters, sellers, administrators, etc.

4. Trust. You should arouse a feeling of trust in her. It would be perfect if you told her a funny story from your childhood of a funny occasion, which had happened to you at work. A man, who can evoke a smile on someone else’s face, automatically receives trust in return; it is much easier to communicate with funny and good-natured people. Don’t ever try to evoke compassion, don’t show your shortcomings; maybe such tactics was effective some time, but modern women have already gotten to the core of this trick. Good luck!

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